Why Women Don't Like Condoms

A new study deems condoms the least popular contraceptive for women.

Similar to life's death and taxes, nothing is certain in se-x than men bemoaning condoms and women insisting on them.

Or so one would think...

A recent study conducted by researchers at The Kinsey Institute in Indiana, suggest the fairer se-x report decreased satisfaction from condoms in numbers almost as staggering as men. In a questionnaire asking women whatcontraceptives they use, and how these methods affect their se-xual enjoyment, condomsbless their latex souls were consistently to blame for a lackluster romp between the sheets. 

Aside from in-the-moment se-xual enjoyment, scientists also asked about overall se-xual satisfaction. Se-xual satisfaction is a combination of se-xual self-esteem and relationship fulfillment. Ironically, women who used condoms and hormonal birth control reported the highest rates of se-xual fulfillment, even higher than those who don't use condoms at all.

This little nugget of information is a head-scratcher. It would be understandable if a woman reported high se-xual satisfaction if they were in a committed relationship, but then why use the condoms AND the birth control? Perhaps these overly vigilant types feel the need to answer researcher questions more positively.

Women are such a complex breed.

This study is a particularly important because women (50% of the se-xual experience) are finally asked about their feelings toward condoms, associate director of The Kinsey Institute and a co-author of the study, Stephanie Sanders said.

The public health community has paid little attention to women's se-xual experiences with contraceptive methods, especially condoms," said Sanders. "If women think condoms detract from se-xual pleasure, they may be less inclined to use them consistently."

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1. She has lots of close male friends “A significant number of affairs begin as close friendships with members of the opposite s3x. The relationship may be platonic at the beginning, but chances are, it won’t stay that way. The closer the woman is to her platonic male friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming her lover unless he’s gay.

2. She has girlfriends who are cheating on their mates. Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. Adults are susceptible to it, too. If a woman has one or more close female friends who are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends, she may eventually start cheating, too.

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3. She has an excessive need for attention. A woman who constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not getting enough attention from him. She will be easy prey for any man who showers with her the attention she feels she deserves.

4. She’s materialistic. A materialistic woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can provide. She can easily be seduced with jewelry, designer clothes, lavish vacations, or the cash to buy these and other expensive things.

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5. She views s3x as a statement of her femininity. Her identity as a woman is tied to how many men she sleeps with. Seducing men to sleep with her is the focal point of her life. With this mental attitude, it’s hard for her to stay faithful to just one man.

6. Shes a thrill seeker or a risk taker. If shes the type who likes to live dangerously, shell cheat just for the thrill of it, or for the excitement of doing something forbidden, or for the challenge of seeing if she can pull it off without getting caught. She views infidelity as other people would view a high-risk sport.

7. Shes easily bored. A woman who is easily bored, or who leads a dull, routine life may cheat on her mate just to alleviate her boredom or add some excitement to her life.

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Good news for men,READ 5 WAYS TO PREVENT PREMATURE EJACULATION

In this article I want to share with you 5 ways to prevent premature eja-culation.

If you’ve ever been disillusioned into thinking that there’s nothing you can do to prevent premature eja-culation, then hopefully this article will change your mind.

The truth is that there are many ways to prevent premature eja-culation, and being able to last longer in bed is something that lies within your control. 

So let me go ahead and share with you 5 powerful strategies for preventing pre-mature eja-culation and lasting longer in bed:

1 Take Some Deep Breaths

A lot of men when it comes to S3x can get very nervous and fearful of premature eja-culation. As a result, they get all tense, sweaty and start taking lots of short, sharp and shallow breaths.

Unfortunately, this is a great recipe for premature eja-culation. So next time you find your nerves kicking in, take 10 slow deep breaths and just watch how you suddenly become a lot more relaxed and last longer too.

2 – Become James Bond

Another way to get rid of your nerves and prevent premature eja-culation is to change your thoughts. If you’re constantly worrying about how bad it’s going to be if you orgasm too soon then you’re bound to make yourself nervous and actually end up making it happen.

On the other hand, if you spend your time thinking like James Bond would think, i.e. seeing yourself in control, just enjoying the moment and not stressing about anything, then you’ll have no nerves to encourage premature eja-culation.

3 – Urinate Before S3x

This is a dead simple way to prevent premature eja-culation, but it’s one that men forget about time and time again. Don’t be like most other men.

Remember to go to the bathroom before having S3x. By doing this you take the pressure off your genitals and lasting longer will come naturally.

4 – Stroke The Roof Of Your Mouth With Your Tongue

OK, I know what you’re thinking. This one is a bit “out there”, but at the end of the day this technique works.

By stroking the roof of your mouth you’ll find that by putting all your attention into doing this weird thing you distract yourself from all the pleasure in your genitals.

This distraction is a great way of getting your control back in the bedroom and lasting longer.

5 – Go For A Second Round

If all else fails, just go for a second round. Women care a lot less than you probably think about premature eja-culation. And this is especially true if you take the time to come back for a second round when you can really pleasure her.

So if you ejaculate early don’t worry about it too much. You can always just learn from your mistakes and go for a second round… I’m sure she’ll thank you for it.

So there are 5 ways to prevent premature eja-culation, use them wisely.

How much do you value Morning S3x? Here Are The 13 Reasons Why Morning S3x Will Always Be The Best S3x

There are some small moments in life that are really great. Turning on the television at the exact moment Robin Williams is giving his moving “Dead Poet’s Society” speech.

Unexpectedly learning that your entire purchase has been discounted 30 percent at checkout.

Glancing down at your phone to see a surprising text from a potential mate. All these instances make us feel like the universe is on our side.

The same goes for s3x. While getting laid is always good, there are some choice encounters that qualify as really, really great.

In the morning haze, when you’re at your most vulnerable and still easing into the day, nothing beats the feeling of having someone next to you wrap his arms around you and make you feel wanted.

Morning s3x is like eating chocolate cake for breakfast — it’s decadent, indulgent and comforting. Plus, who doesn’t want to linger in bed just a little longer?

The benefits extend to more than just being uncharacteristically nice to everyone for the rest of the day. Multiple studies have shown that individuals who engage in morning s3x are healthier and happier people. Your post-coital glow that others are noticing isn’t totally bogus.

Waking up to an eager partner sure as hell beats waking up to an alarm clock.

Here are all the reasons morning s3x is the best s3x.

1. Because you’ll actually remember it.

This is a win for you and your girlfriends, who will appreciate the fully detailed recap later.

Normally you can’t recollect anything save a few fragments, “I think it was um, good?”; “He was hot, right? You guys saw him?” But now you’ll be able to fill in all the good stuff.

2. You’re guaranteed to wake up on the right side of the bed.

S3x in the morning gets you and the day  off right. Researchers from the University of Cincinnati found that morning s3x is a natural stress-reliever and these effects can last for at least seven days, meaning your early Monday romp could ease those Sunday Blues.

Morning s3x also increases levels of IgA, an antibody that helps to fight against infection, according to Dr. Debby Herbenick, an American research scientist and author of “Because It Feels Good.” It’s like taking your daily vitamins… only way more pleasurable.

3. You can skip the gym.

It’s a way better alternative to a morning workout before hopping into the shower. Scientists confirm that an hour of s3x burns almost as many calories as a 30-minute jog.

After an hour, men and women burn an average of 240 calories and 180 calories, respectively.

While that length of straight thrusting might be wishful thinking (unless you’re of the jack-hammer variety), like any good exercise routine, at least you’ll have something to work up to.

4. Who doesn’t want to begin the day with an orgasm?

It’s like Christmas morning — there’s a package waiting for you to enjoy. And everyone scores.

5. Because your clothes are already off.

This does make for a speedier process, which is key for weekday mornings.

Heed the advice of great philosopher and first man to state the obvious, Aristotle, ”If everyone is naked, it only follows then that we should have s3x.” Wise guy.

6. You can carpool after.

Who needs to drive to work when you’re already riding dirty?

7. It’s more intimate.

The few minutes we have to ourselves after first opening our eyes are special. Most people who you’re in regular contact with have no idea what you look, sound, smell and feel like first thing in the morning. It’s a rare moment to others that’s all to yourself.

Fill that moment in with another person and it becomes a shared secret privy to only you two. That’s what makes morning s3x so intimate.

It’s stripped of everything — clothes, makeup, the weight of a day’s events, toothpaste, priorities — and somehow leaves you feeling fuller.

8. Because shower s3x just doesn’t cut it.

The water in your face, the slippery surfaces (especially where feet are concerned!), the soap in places that can’t support life with soap —shower s3x is like the sh*tty water park version of intercourse you indulge in when you have nothing better to do over the summer.

Morning s3x is the more fun, cooler theme park. Better than Disney.

9. It affirms that you two are still interested in each other sober.

Any s3x that is not drunk and sloppy means there’s hope. When the lights are on, it’s even better getting off.

10. Because you love an excuse to gloat at work.

Coworker 1: How was your night?
You: I had amazing morning s3x.

Coworker 2: I’m so stressed.
You: Morning s3x could fix that. I would know.

Coworker 3: Where do you want to go for lunch?
You: Some place where they sell morning s3x all day.

11. It’s a better replacement for coffee.

S3x gets you going first thing in the morning. A poke in the back jolts you awake in a way that caffeine can’t.

If you become addicted, we understand.

12. You leave on a high.

Morning s3x is ending the night on a good note. Especially in more “foreign” bedrooms, post-morning s3x acts as an inoffensive cue to exit. We f*cked. Now SCRAM!

13. There’s nothing like a good s3x rooster to wake you up.

Exposed early breath, post-coital glow, and natural daylight to contour your face morning s3x makes waking up early totally worth it.

Three quarters of men would turn down first-date se-x

Men are more romantic than women and quicker to describe themselves as being in a relationship, according to a new survey.

Three quarters of men would turn down se-x on a first date, according to a poll of more than 2,000 people. 
And a quarter would not feel comfortable even kissing after their first meeting with a potential partner. 
The poll found that 15 per cent of women would be happy to go to bed with a new partner after one date, while 72 per cent of them would be up for an end-of-evening snog. 
The survey also suggested that men were more likely to be romantic than their female partners. 25 per cent of men said they would mention love within the first month of dating, compared to just 16 per cent of women. 
Women were most likely to hold off telling their partner they loved them until the fourth month of dating. 
And while three quarters of men said they would be comfortable saying “I love you” first, less than half of women would do the same. 
Men are also ready to introduce a new partner to their parents and update their Facebook status to “in a relationship” earlier than women, according to the poll – doing both after an average of eight dates. 
Richard Longhurst, co-owner of LoveHoney, the se-x-toy firm which commissioned the survey, said: “[Men] are keener to tell their partner they love them but also to outwardly recognise this commitment by changing their Facebook status and introducing their loved one to their parents. 
“Women are a little more wary – preferring to take their time before revealing similar levels of commitment.” 
He added: “I think what is encouraging is that British men's stiff upper lip seems to have disappeared completely. They are prepared to be far more open about their feelings and tell their partner their true feelings. That has to be good thing.” 

Why You Must Cu-ddle

On the very long list of things men don’t understand about women is the fact that women always want to cuddle. In fact, AM received this message from a befuddled reader who wanted to know exactly what it is about cu-ddling that women find so important:

"What is it with this cuddling business? All my girlfriend wants to do is cuddle. I don't understand the whole concept about cuddling. I think an article that explains why women think that cuddling is so important would be great."
This seems to be a common attitude among men who can’t wrap their brains around what their women see as the necessity of cu-ddling.I'm here to explain this phenomenon to you and to show you the positive side of cuddling.

Why women cu-ddle

The act of cuddling releases a hormone called oxytocin, sometimes called the "cuddling hormone.” Oxytocin is responsible for provoking what scientists refer to as “pair bonding,” which means it makes the cuddling couple feel closer and more intimate. This helps to create a bond between a man and a woman. In evolutionary terms, a woman wants to create this pair bond in order to get the man to commit to her and their offspring. Even if your woman isn’t trying to marry you and start bearing your babies, she is likely still drawn to create an emotional bond with you and this kind of physical intimacy is a good way to do it.

Cuddling also feels pretty damn good when it’s done right, so another reason women insist on it is that the sensations triggered by a cuddle session can be very pleasurable.

Why men don’t cu-ddle

It can be exceptionally frustrating that your first instinct post-orgas-m is to go right to sleep, while she prefers to get in a good cuddle session first. The reason for this is all about the hormones your brain releases after se-x. As a man has an orgas-m, a variety of brain chemicals are released including the hormone prolactin. Prolactin has a strong connection to sleep so its presence is probably responsible for a man’s tendency to want to sleep after se-x. The release of prolactin also indicates the beginning of the “recovery time” that men have to take before having se-x again. Women often don’t require any such time-out after having an orgas-m.

It's time to find a compromise on the cuddling situation ..

Some men might also shy away from cuddling because of its intimate, personal nature if they are worried about appearing vulnerable.

Why you should cuddle

If you can let yourself relax enough emotionally and physically, you might actually enjoy some of the benefits of cuddling. Oxytocin is released in your brain, just like it is in the female brain, along with a host of other feel-good hormones that will leave you feeling happy and less stressed. A 2006 study by the Berman Center for Women's Health in Chicago showed that couples who regularly indulge in spontaneous, non-se-xual physical affection are more satisfied with their relationships. Even if you don’t get the appeal of cuddling, you should be able to see the connection between it and a happy girlfriend. When your girlfriend is happy, your relationship is going to be much smoother sailing.

Cuddling moves

For those new to the world of cuddling, you might need some tips to get you going. If you find yourself at a loss for what to do when you’re curled up in an embrace with your girlfriend, try one of these standard cuddling moves:

• Stroke her hair
• Kiss her forehead
• Touch her face
• Gently run your hands up and down her arms
• Intertwine your fingers with hers
• Rub her back gently
• Make eye contact

Get your cuddle on

Remember, cuddling doesn’t have to be relegated to a post-se-x-only activity. In fact, she’ll probably enjoy it more if you spontaneously start a cuddle session in the middle of the day. Also, don’t forget that the point of cuddling is not to morph into fore-play on the way to se-x. Cuddle for cuddling’s sake and the next time you do have se-x, you’ll reap the rewards of making your girlfriend feel happy, connected and close to you.